We arrived in Phoenix Monday afternoon around 4:30. By my calculations, we travelled just under 2000 miles since leaving Lawrenceburg, KY on Thursday! Pretty good haul...
I'll have some random thoughts on the finale of our trip in a moment, but first, more about the conversation...if you have followed my life/blog or know me personally, you know it seems like I have a tendency to have conversations w/ people who feel "wronged" in some way by religion/church/Christians. Sunday morning, we left Albuquerque, headed for Flagstaff, AZ. Katie saw a sign for "Old Town" Albuquerque and wanted to check it out, so we did. It was a great idea by her, as we were able to see some fabulous old time Spanish architecture, and see a lot of neat shops and sights. We went to a Christmas shop, and struck up a conversation w/ the woman working. She asked what we were doing heading to Phx, etc...and I told her I was a pastor moving to start a new church. She asked, "What denomination?" I told her SBC, and she immediately rolled her eyes. She just as immediately put her hand out and apologized saying, "I'm sorry for rolling my eyes. I grew up in Charlotte, NC and quite honestly, just do not have good memories of Southern baptist life/religion." I assured her there was no need to apologize, that I was not offended and quite the contrary, I was working as a pastor to combat that perception of the SBC. We had a great conversation about what did work and what didn't...what needed to be changed and what should stay the same. One comment she made struck me as powerful; she stated, "Since I've moved out here I've had several great spiritual experiences with God, and I now know He is not the God I was led to believe in when I was young." I couldn't help but ask what she meant, and her reply was she now knew God as her loving Creator, and One who was out to help her and draw close to her...not One who was sitting in heaven waiting to cast down lightning bolts whenever she messed up.
I often wonder if other pastors have as many of these conversations as I do. I often wonder why it seems as though people with these stories are 'attracted' to me. Maybe it's because I listen...maybe it's because God is using these people/instances to remind me what notto be...maybe it's just because there are a LOT of wounded people out there, and most of them carry wounds that were inflicted by the church. Regardless, I am grateful for these conversations, and pray God will continually allow me to speak on His behalf in the truth of who He is...
Now, thoughts from the last leg of the trip...
1) Western geography is truly amazing...from about 15 miles east of the New Mexico state line all the way into Phoenix, it was just one awe-inspiring sight after another. Literally with every hill we popped over or every corner we rounded, the landscape had the ability to both change and amaze in an instant. From the mesas of NM, to the painted deserts of NE Arizona, to the largest pine forest in the U.S. in Flagstaff, along the red rocks of Sedona...truly an unbelievable sight. Driving out west may take a lot longer, but the sights you receive that you can't see from a plane 37,000 feet up are worth it...if you ever get a chance to do it, take it.
2) As we drove through NM and Northern AZ, we were deluged with signs for Indian reservations/gift shops, etc...as I explained to Katie how the Indians were driven out west and how their land was really taken away from them, I couldn't help but feel for their history. Perhaps they've made the best of it and work hard at the opportunities they have now...but I couldn't escape this overwhelming feeling of exploitation as we drove through the area.
3) Phoenix had thunderstorms tonight...and a major hurricane is looking to move up the Gulf of California and impact Phoenix the end of the week into the weekend...welcome to the city Rose family!
4) I loved the fact that Katie sang louder in the car to songs like "Everlasting God", "You Never Let Go" and "You Said" then she did to Taylor Swift and Miley Cyrus...leads me to believe we're doing something right as parents.
5) We stepped back into time at Puerta de Luna near Santa Rosa, NM on the way out...saw a church built in the 1800's that is still in use. Breathtaking isn't even a word to describe it...
6) Gotta say I wasn't all that impressed with the whole "Route 66" aspect of the trip...maybe we didn't spend enough time on the Route itself. Perhaps next time we'll veer off I-40 more frequently...
7) Really anxious to see how Kenzie does with the adjustment here...
8) It was truly an incredible sight to see massive, sprawling farms in North Texas...you'd see hundreds or thousands of acres spread out, then a house on the horizon in the middle of it all. It's nice to not see urban sprawl all over the place.
9) If you ever get to visit Sedona, eat at the Olde Sedona Cafe...the chile rellenos are DELICIOUS!!!
10) Overall, a great trip...would I do it again? Sure...if I could somehow skip over the area between Amarillo and Oklahoma City...and parts of Arkansas.